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Kazibwe Kapo says infidelity should not make women leave marriages- He believes men are wired differently but mature over time
- His comments have sparked mixed reactions, especially among women
Kadongo Kamu singer Kazibwe Kapo has stirred public debate after sharing controversial advice urging women to remain in their marriages even when faced with infidelity.
Speaking during a recent discussion, Kapo acknowledged that his stance may not sit well with many, but insisted it reflects what he believes to be the reality in most marriages. He argued that while cheating is not right, it should not automatically lead to separation or divorce.
“Infidelity is not something I support, but it should not be the reason a woman walks away from her marriage,” Kapo said.
The singer went on to explain that if a woman chooses to leave every time she encounters unfaithfulness, she risks moving from one relationship to another without finding stability. He even revealed that if his own daughter came to him with evidence of a cheating partner, he would advise her to return and work on the marriage.
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“If my daughter told me she found a cheating message, I would take her back myself. Leaving won’t solve the bigger issue,” he added.
Kapo further suggested that men and women are wired differently, claiming that many men struggle with fidelity, especially in younger relationships. However, he noted that with maturity and time, men tend to grow out of such behavior as emotional attachment deepens.
According to him, long-term marriages often reach a stage where, despite physical temptation, emotional connection and commitment outweigh the desire to cheat.
His remarks have since sparked mixed reactions online. While some men have backed his perspective as realistic, many women have strongly disagreed, arguing that infidelity is a valid reason to leave a relationship. Others have questioned whether the same advice would apply equally if women were the ones being unfaithful.
