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• Zari The Bosslady advised women to prioritize their happiness, mental wellbeing, and self-worth in relationships.
• She stressed that financial independence gives women the freedom to leave unhealthy relationships when necessary.
• Zari also warned that a trending polygamy-themed series may trigger viewers who have experienced infidelity or toxic relationships.

Socialite and businesswoman Zari Hassan has advised women to always put themselves first, especially in relationships where they feel unwanted or unappreciated.

Speaking about the trending polygamy-themed series The Polygamist that has sparked conversations online, Zari said the show highlights a reality many women experience in relationships. According to her, men often prioritize their own interests regardless of the emotional impact their actions may have on their partners.

“One thing about men is that they’ll choose themselves and they don’t care whether what they do will kill you or send you into depression,” she said.

Zari further noted that women should pay attention to signs that a man is no longer interested rather than holding on to false hope.

She argued that many women continue to endure infidelity and unhealthy relationships despite clear indications that their partners are no longer committed.

“A man doesn’t have to tell you twice that he doesn’t want you,” she said.

The mother of five added that such behavior is common in society and can be found among men from different backgrounds and family settings.

In an honest revelation, Zari admitted that her own father was not exempt from such conduct.

“It can be your father, uncle or even brother. I’m sorry to say this but my dad was a Jonasi too,” she confessed.

Zari also warned viewers who have previously experienced betrayal, infidelity, or toxic relationships that the trending series could be emotionally triggering.

“If you’ve been through something like that in your past relationships or seen someone go through it, this series might trigger you,” she cautioned.

Beyond matters of love and heartbreak, Zari stressed the importance of financial independence for women. She explained that having financial stability gives women the freedom to walk away from relationships that no longer serve their wellbeing.

“You see why we keep saying have financial stability? You should be able to move on if a man walks out of your life,” she emphasized.

She concluded by expressing concern for women who remain trapped in unhealthy relationships because they lack the resources, support systems, or confidence to start over.

Encouraging women to reflect on their happiness and mental health, Zari challenged them to evaluate whether staying in painful situations is truly worth the emotional cost.

“Take a moment and ask yourself, is it worth it? Is it worth your mental wellbeing?” she questioned.