TAKEAWAYS

• Abdul Ssekajja denies stealing Chosen Becky from Dictator Amir.
• Ssekajja was previously Amir’s personal driver and friend.
• He says he and Chosen Becky were both single when their relationship began.

Musician Chosen Becky’s husband, Abdul Ssekajja Qadir, has pushed back against claims that he “stole” the singer from her former partner, Dictator Amir, insisting that their relationship began after both had become single.

Ssekajja, who previously worked as Amir’s personal driver, faced criticism when he and Chosen Becky went public with their relationship, with some questioning how he could move from being Amir’s friend and driver to becoming the singer’s partner.

The couple’s relationship became public in 2025, with Ssekajja proposing to Chosen Becky in August that year. At the time, reports described him as her former driver and social media manager.

Speaking in an interview, Ssekajja rejected the narrative that he took Chosen Becky from another man.

He explained that he did not meet her while she was in another relationship and therefore believes the accusation is misplaced.

According to Ssekajja, similar claims have also been made about Chosen Becky, with people suggesting that she “stole” him from another woman. He dismissed both versions, saying they were single when they decided to be together.

“People know the truth but choose to remain silent,” Ssekajja reportedly said, maintaining that their relationship was a mutual decision between two consenting adults.

Chosen Becky had previously been in a long-term relationship with Dictator Amir, with whom she shares children. The pair ended their relationship in 2025 after years together.

Despite the controversy surrounding the beginning of their relationship, Chosen Becky and Ssekajja have since married and appear to be building their life together.

Their story continues to attract public attention largely because Ssekajja was once closely associated with Becky’s former partner.