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- Kasuku says men can wait until 40 to marry, rather than feeling pressured to settle down early.
- He believes having children with different women before marriage is acceptable, provided a man eventually settles with a partner he considers right for him.
- He urged men not to fear societal judgment, arguing that men can also be used or abandoned in relationships.
Media personality Kasuku has advised men not to rush into marriage, arguing that men can wait until the age of 40 before settling down.
Speaking during an interview with Tegusulwa, Kasuku said men can have relationships and children with different women between the ages of 18 and 40 before eventually choosing a partner they believe is right for them.
Kasuku defended the idea of having children with different women, saying men should not be overly concerned about criticism from society or women who may leave them along the way.
“Some people are just to be used until someone reaches somewhere and they get a person they feel is worth their standard at that moment.”
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He argued that relationships can involve people using each other until they find partners who meet the standards they want at a particular stage of their lives.
Kasuku said his views are partly shaped by experiences within his own family, noting that he has seen his sisters being left by their partners and that his own mother was also left by his father.
“Men should never be worried about what anyone thinks of them because they have been having numerous relationships with women along the way.”
He further dismissed warnings that children born from such relationships could eventually suffer the consequences of their parents’ choices. According to Kasuku, not every hardship experienced by a person should be attributed to curses or consequences from women who may have been hurt in past relationships.
Additionally, he encouraged men to live without fear of societal judgment, arguing that men can also find themselves being used or abandoned in relationships before eventually meeting someone they consider suitable for marriage.
